The truth is, most people who actually matter have their own lives, their own concerns. They’re not paying that much attention. And if they do look, they’re usually caught up in whatever they’ve got going on — they flip the page, skip the chapter altogether. Now, I’m not gaslighting you… YES, in today’s world the critics are loud. People with too much time, not enough going on, self-appointed judges of truth and morality who think they’re here to educate everyone else, correct you, tell you how to live. They will zoom in on every word. And yeah, that stings. (Honestly… look at where it’s coming from.)